Monday 6 August 2012

Know For Sure If He Is A Cheater

By Kay Todding


Do you think that your man is cheating on you? What are some of the signs that he is cheating? How can you know for sure if your boyfriend or husband is running around with another woman? Other than asking him, in which case he would probably deny it, and hiring a private detective, there are signs that he is cheating on you that you can be looking out for.

Setting him up or trying to bluff him into confessing the fact that he is cheating on you is a risky game. If he's any good at playing poke he'll simply deny it and you'll never be able to accuse him of this again. After all, it really could be that he's not cheating on you and it's just your own mind playing tricks on you. You create scenarios inside your head of what you think is going on and the truth might be something completely innocent that is causing all of the strange behavior and the strange vibe that you're detecting from him. But how can you know for sure?

Maybe you have noticed that he has been acting different towards you. Maybe his attitude has changed or he seems preoccupied often when you are together. Any sort of change might make you think that something is wrong and maybe the thought that he is carrying on with someone else has come to your mind. Maybe he's very protective of his cell phone or you have noticed that he keeps it turned off when you are together. Maybe he has it in his pocket all the time or he has put a password on his phone to keep you from using it or checking his phone for text messages or call history.

Even though there might be a logical explanation for all of this it can be a little suspicious if all of this is something new. It could be that his job has changed or he has grown tired of getting interupted while you are together by work calls. One way to find out for sure if he is hiding something is to simply ask to use his phone. If he balks or seems overly nervous then maybe there is something going on. Be cool and calm if he seems to be freaking out and ask him what's wrong. At that point you are free to look at his phone for missed calls and text messages. If he has nothing to hide then he won't mind at all.

Cheaters often use email to communicate and if you notice that he is more secretive about his internet useage then you might wonder if he is cheating on you. If he creates an account on his computer that is password protected or if he clears his internet history after he has been on your computer then you might want to check out what is going on. By default, a computer will hold onto your internet history for 20 days. If it is set to delete the history when the browser is closed or if you notice that there is no internet history then you might wonder what he's trying to hide.

All of these things might not be absolute proof that your boyfriend is cheating on you with someone else but it does raise some suspicions. You might want to look closer at what's going on in his life. Is there a new girl at work or does he have a new female friend that he talks about sometimes, perhaps nervously? Be aware of conflicting stories that he might tell you but try not to accuse him of anything. Cheaters always mess up and get caught eventually. He will eventually be seen by someone or leave something out in the open by accident that you weren't meant to see. But what do you want to do about it?

Whether you decide to search further and find out for sure if he is cheating or if you want to try to strengthen your relationship and make him not want to cheat is up to you. You really can cheat-proof your relationship and make him desire you and you alone once you understand why men cheat and what they really want in a woman. Most men cheat because they are missing something in their present relationship. If you know how to give him that attention and make him feel emotionally that he is needed then you will never have to worry about having a cheating boyfriend ever again.




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