Thursday 16 August 2012

Do Pick Up Artist Approaches Still Work?

By Amy Cavender


When a bestselling book called 'The Game' hit the top of the NYT best sellers note the male world stood up and began to accept the techniques that were proposed in side it in order to get women in to bed. A community that previously just existed underground had hit commercial heights and numerous forums, books, tapes and DVD were spawn out of the brand-new discovered popularization of Pick Up Artistry.

Fast forward a years and, due to the popularization of the techniques, one needs to ask the question about whether pick up artist methods still work.

My answer to that question would certainly be: Most of the time.

The reason I state this is because not every person learns about the book and the techniques in the book so therefore it goes without stating that if you do not know that someone is 'running game' on you there is a good chance that you will fall for it.

In order to put this in to some sort of point of view let me hire yet another analogy. There are lots of methods accessible that will enable you to pick winning stocks on a regular basis. You can take 10 individuals and ask them to all use the exact same method for 3 months. If you evaluated their performances after this period in time some will certainly have won and some will certainly have lost and yet they all hired the same stock choice technique.

Of you apply this to 'pick up' techniques it is precisely the same, some will be successful at getting women and some will not succeed due to the fact that everyone is different and will make different choices at different points in time and some will conform based on exactly what works for them and exactly what doesn't, some will be too inflexible that they will certainly never ever adapt and for that reason will fail.

It doesn't matter that the target (the female) recognizes the strategy or not (she undoubtedly will not) exactly what matters is exactly how extremely versatile, competent and committed the prospective Pick Up Artist (PUA) is. Neil does state in the book that there will be celebrations when the target recognizes that they are being played and will respond appropriately. When this occurs it is all down to the skill of the Pick Up Artist to have a script ready that retorts in a cocky, comical means.

To questions whether these methods still work is way too general a remark and illustrates the shortage of comprehending that the person asking the question has on the deeper psychology hired in The Game. It resembles asking whether or not a black and white TV still works. Of course it does however the technology has actually moved on.

Doing the exact same thing over and over once again will deliver the exact same outcomes, by changing and doing the things that are not working in a different way you will be setting yourself out from the crowd. The fundamentals do not change as they are shown and so are the principles of Pick UP. The Game is still as valid as it ever was.




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