Friday 12 October 2012

Top 5 Online Dating Tips for Breaking the Ice

By Michelle Smith


Internet made it possible for us to get almost what we want in just a few clicks. Dating is one of them. Online dating has been preferred by many people these days because it's convenient and easy to do. It may be different from traditional or offline dating in some ways but it still works almost the same thing. It's a way of many to find that special someone. If you're unsure how to strike a conversation, here are some tips to help you out:

1. Discuss the 'About Me' section

Why would you look further if you can already start the conversation from the person's profile? Look for interesting facts about the person and talk about them. Don't just throw in questions, learn to listen well, and engage yourself in the conversation, giving your points-of-view.

2. Let your sense of humor flow

If you're naturally a humorous person, this can be a good start for you and the other person. Humor makes each conversation lighter. It eases tension specially if it's the 1st time for these two people to converse. If, however, you think you have little or dry sense of humor then you might want to read more humor books or watch funny shows to bring out that funny side of you. Be careful when giving jokes as it may turn out to be awkward on your part or offensive for the other person.

3. Ask open-ended questions

One sure way of ending a conversation too quickly is asking closed-ended questions. These are questions that are often answered by yes or no. Steer away from this type of questions. You may start with topics that are safe to discuss with such as personal interests, hobbies, and more.

4. Talk about current events

You don't have to know every minute detail of the event. You simply just have to know what's going around. If you're talking to a person whose home country is different from yours, then discussing current events would be a good chance to know where the person is coming from.

5. Plan your perfect date together

If you already have decided to take a step further then there's no other way to add zest to your conversation than to talk about your perfect date.




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